Words Have Power
Positive Self Talk Is Key To Combating Negative Words About Yourself
It’s
already been established that words have power, and we all know the
effects of negative words on our thoughts and actions, but unless we
start using positive self talk when referring to ourselves, those same
negative words can and will effect our health.
If said often enough, these negative words can totally change your
health, your life and your outlook on life. The negative power and
feelings are already there… add them to your negative words and you have
the makings of a disaster… which is your health!
We have all been caught in the trap of using negative words of power
in either describing how we look, feel or act… but have you ever thought
that it’s just as easy to look at yourself in a positive way than it is
to look at yourself in a negative way?
The Power of Words
The ancient Greek playwright Aeschylus wrote, “Words are the physicians of a diseased mind.”
I use spoken words every day to help my patients learn how to improve
their health and their lives. Have you ever paid attention to how words
impact you? What do the words you speak and hear mean to you? More
importantly, how do the words you say to yourself affect you?
Famous Quotes
Words have power to heal, the power to destroy, and the power to
change the world. Consider the following famous words and how they
changed history.
“I have a dream…”
“We hold these truths to be self evident: that all men are created equal.”
“Four score and seven years ago, our fathers brought forth on this
continent, a new nation, conceived in liberty, and dedicated to the
proposition that all men are created equal.”
“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.”
“If you tell a big enough lie, and you tell it frequently enough, it will be believed.”
Words Have Power: Self Talk for Success
The most powerful words of all are the ones you say to yourself
everyday. Specifically, I mean the self talk or conversation that you
have with yourself throughout the day. Have you ever stopped to listen
to how you talk to yourself? I have noticed that people say things to
themselves that they would never say to someone else. Things like “I’m
fat,” or “I’m not smart enough to do that.” It’s rare for people to give
themselves compliments-we are our own harshest critic.
Words have
power and they have a tremendous impact on your health. Do you ever hear
yourself say, “I don’t have time to exercise,” or “Just one more won’t
hurt”? Do you frequently say “I’m tired” or “I’m stressed”? Words like
these create the emotion or feeling that you would have if the words
were true. These emotions lead to the actions reflected by your
feelings, which then reinforce the feelings.
If you say you are tired, then you will begin to feel tired. Feeling
tired leads to sluggish behavior which generates fatigue rather than
vibrant energy. What you focus on grows. If you focus on feeling
unhealthy then you will tend to have unhealthy behaviors that follow.
Words Have Power: Program Your Health with the Right Words
The words you use are like computer code that becomes the software of
your mind. You program your behavior with your words. If you don’t like
the results that you are getting in your life, you simply need to
change the software by reprogramming your mind. It takes time to work
out the bugs in a program, but the goal is consciously to decide what
you want, use words and thoughts consistent with that desire, and then
began acting on the thought.
For example, if you want to be thin,
you first need to change the words you use. Stop saying and stop
thinking “I’m fat.” Replace that thought with “I enjoy being a healthy
weight” or “I am enjoying the process of becoming thin.” Expand on this
by changing the conversations in your head about food and exercise.
Words Have Power: Talk Healthy – Think Healthy
Cultivate positive self talk that leads to healthier thinking. Think,
“Healthy people eat vegetables instead of cake,” and “Thin people
exercise most days of the week, so I will go to the gym today.” Squash
all thoughts that are contrary to your goal and cultivate those that
lead to healthy behaviors. Start thinking of yourself as a healthy
person, start speaking healthy words and then take healthy actions.
Words have power…
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